Tuesday, February 05, 2008

Things Not to Say to Me

Some people have been incredibly supportive, and while they feel that they don't know what to say to me, they are not saying insensitive things to me. However....

"Look at so-and-so, it took her six months to get pregnant, and there's nothing wrong with her."
As if there is something wrong with me.

"I heard from so-and-so that you got your test results back, how come you didn't tell me?"
Why does it matter who you heard it from -- how about just telling me you know I'm disappointed and you're sorry.

I know I'm still cranky from the disappointment, and on top of that, I am now pre-menstrual. I just need one more day to feel sorry for myself.

1 comment:

Nina said...

So sorry. I know how much you want this.